I can't remember the name of a movie I watched a while back. It came out in maybe the mid to early 2000's I believe. It was between a heavy set kind of guy I think he had like black hair, and this young blonde woman. I think they were having an affair possibly because they seemed to be meeting in private although I don't remember her being with someone. The few scenes I do remember are when the man and the woman meeting in a hotel where the woman is wearing a red dress that I guess the man paid for and he rips it and they proceed to have sex. Another scene I remember is when the man I think goes into her house and rapes her on the staircase and leaves her crying.